The art of arriving home in a new country.

I went the long way, so you don't have to.

ABOUT THE FOUNDER

JACQUELINE PETTIT

I built Life Beyond Borders because I remember the dream of home in a new place with no one to help me plan. Budgeting for cities I had never visited. Too much information and not enough discernment. And fear. That wanting a different life meant I was ungrateful for the one I had. But one life had simply run its course, and the next one was waiting for the version of me brave enough to begin.
I spent more than twenty years building lives in new countries. Learning languages. Navigating immigration systems, cultures, and the loneliness of proving, each time, that you belong.
It felt like I belonged. In senior-director roles for luxury hospitality, where the work was never just service. It was strategy, anticipation, and follow-through at the highest level. Reading what the most discerning people wanted without a word, I built plans that held under pressure, and left nothing to chance. But I could not discern if I was choosing that life or just maintaining it.

Life Beyond Borders HOSPITALITY

I went the long way, so you don't have to.

The skills were real, but the satisfaction had quietly left. What if I took everything I had built and used it for something that mattered? Helping people design the lives they have been waiting to live.
Today I hold citizenship in two countries, and a third on the way. Three languages, and learning two more. Forty countries and climbing. I have answered consular officers in new languages about my finances, my plans, and photos of my grandparents. I have made every mistake, and now it’s knowledge I could not have found in a guidebook or online course.
If you want to move abroad, I know the way, because I have walked it more than once, and built something real and lasting every time.
I’m the navigator I needed and never had. So I became her.

IRISHA STEELE

Wellbeing and Integration

Irisha is known as a catalyst for change. A Spa and Wellness Director with over 15 years of experience shaping world-class wellness destinations across Aspen, Boston, Hawaii, Toronto, the Hamptons, and Palm Springs. Her work, grounded in Forbes Five-Star standards, has been featured in Vogue, The New York Times, Condé Nast Traveler, and Home & Design.
But credentials only tell part of her story.
Irisha was the first in her family to move abroad. She held onto a vision she had written down years earlier, that she would travel the world and work in the finest spas, and she made it real through moments of self-doubt and deep reflection. Her journey eventually took her to live and work in Indonesia, where everything deepened, and she held onto that vision.
There, she embraced slow living and well-being, learning that true transformation doesn’t come from doing more but from trusting yourself.
Within Life Beyond Borders, Irisha supports clients alongside Jackie to create meaningful, lasting transformation through the emotional and physical dimensions of relocation, the part of the move that planning alone cannot address. She helps you arrive in your new country not just logistically prepared, but genuinely grounded, regulated, and ready to build your new life from a place of calm rather than chaos.

JULIANA GRANDE

Career and Purpose Reinvention

Juliana spent eight years asking herself a question. She graduated in Chemical Engineering and built a career in Human Resources at multinational corporations. While the work and the life were what society wanted from her, none of it answered the question that kept getting louder: “Is this actually what I want, or is this what I was told to want?
In 2021, after a period of depression that finally made the question impossible to ignore, she left. Not for another job. She left for Latin America alone, and moved through countries and cities that had no attachment to who she had been before, and she started to hear what she actually wanted underneath all the years of performing stability. That trip did not give her answers. It gave her back the willingness to live without needing them so urgently. Today Juliana lives as a digital nomad, currently in Southeast Asia, letting new places and unfamiliar rhythms reshape how she understands herself and her work.
Within Life Beyond Borders, she guides clients alongside Jackie through the career and identity questions that international relocation inevitably brings to the surface. When you leave the job, the title, and the country that held your old life together, who are you without it? She helps you make decisions about work and purpose that actually come from you rather than from the expectations you carried for years.

Relocating to a new country changes everything. Where you live, how you spend your days, who you allow yourself to become.

The logistical work is critical. But the recalibration of your sense of self, your relationship to purpose and your career, and your capacity to arrive somewhere new and actually feel at home and feel integrated in your new country—that work matters just as much. That is the work Irisha and Juliana do, and it is why they are part of this.

what I'm known for

Asking the questions nobody else thinks to ask

Turning chaos into a plan

A SUPERPOWER

WHAT I'M KNOWN FOR

Asking the questions nobody else thinks to ask

MY UNPOPULAR OPINION ABOUT MOVING ABROAD

You don't have to hate your country to want something different.

HOW I STOP THE WORLD

Scuba diving

Dirty vodka martini

ALWAYS ORDER ME A

The airport

CHRONICALLY EARLY TO

THE ONE THING I'D MOVE ACROSS THE WORLD FOR

A good affogato for dessert

CURRENTLY LEARNING

French, Italian, and when to stop working

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